Positive Intelligence ~ PQ Course

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“The reason we feel anxious is because in the back of our minds we know that control is an illusion.”

—Shirzad Chamine


Cover of the book, Positive Intelligence by Shirzad Chamine

At the suggestion of one of my respected colleagues, Joan Yue, Ph. D., who is a personal coach and healer, I decided to register for Shirzad Chamine’s course on Positive Intelligence (PQ). You’re probably familiar with the term, IQ (an individual’s Intelligence Quotient as determined by tests used in our educational system).

You might also be aware of the concept of EQ, a person’s Emotional Intelligence Quotient. It is defined by Oxford Languages as “The capacity to be aware of, control, and express one’s emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically.”


How Is Positive Intelligence (PQ) Different?

PQ advocates contend that, while your IQ and EQ contribute to your maximum potential, it is your PQ that determines how much of that potential you achieve.

We often fail to manifest what we desire in life because there may be a war going on between our mind’s judgmental saboteurs and our higher wisdom’s ability to employ the perspective of a “Sage.” When following the PQ suggestions, the Sage can help us remove those negative judgments and substitute a constructive, peaceful way of overcoming the stress and negative consequences associated with tainted thinking and emotional responses.

video icon pointing to link for Life Coach  Let’s listen to Shirzad’s description in a lecture he presented in Talks at Google.


Positive Intelligence (PQ) is the name of Shirzad Chamine’s New York Times best-selling book. It’s also the name of his method that we all can use for measuring our Mental Fitness (MF).

MF includes rebounding quickly from negativity (emotions or circumstances) and substituting positive, constructive techniques for creating more harmonious or successful outcomes.

Our PQ indicates how quickly we recover from counterproductive to positive responses to challenges. The classes teach ways in which to do it faster, more consistently, and with health benefits to our minds/bodies/spirits/and emotions.

The following is information about him, as well as a way in which you can register through a certified trainer, who may be able to offer a discounted price. (No, I don’t get paid for writing this blog.) Continue Reading →

Less Stress = More Moxy!

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Stress Less – Tips and Tools

Does stress have you down? If yes, you are not at your best, so let’s learn a quick, free, DIY technique to transform your mood and how you affect others!

 

 

 

 

 


When You Are Stressed, People (& Animals) Feel It.

Tension Rises.

Things Can “Go South.”

Your Self-Confidence is Reduced.

You  Need Help “In the Moment.”

So, let’s talk about that, and I’ll share the first of some tips to help you stress less.

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Coping with Anxiety

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I promise not to tell you, “Take three deep, cleansing breaths,” or “Count to ten,“ although that, too, would be helpful as a start!

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Instead, I’ll recap some points covered in an inspirational Zoom session I had recently with some of my Life Coach colleagues. We talked about ways in which anxiety is a

helpful messenger

motivator

tool for success

in both business and personal situations.

We shall look at some examples. (If you’re in a hurry or just want to – scroll past the definitions to “get to the meat” of the conversation. Look for the heading, “Pain Is the Point – In a Good Way!”) Scroll to the end to find books as reference materials, if you want to learn more from experts on the subject. Continue Reading →

Healthy Foods for Unhealthy Conditions

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Pictures Are Worth a Thousand Words!

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Healthy foods – when combined properly and used consistently – can have wonderful illness-prevention properties and may reduce bloating, gas, reflux, and other yucky symptoms!

I found a great site, Shape-Able.com. which elaborates on several kinds of foods that are best to address specific conditions. I encourage you to go to their site. However, I’ll share a few of their pictures (with permission) to give you examples. Then, you’ll know it’s worth the time to investigate more on their website!

I am not a nutritionist. Most of the classes I teach are about personal or professional development and other ways of being or becoming healthy. Examples include setting boundaries, self-care, stress reduction, meditation, working with chakras, “energy work” – like Reiki, and learning techniques for changing fears and limiting beliefs so that you can meet your personal and professional goals. However, I KNOW THAT “WE ARE WHAT WE EAT,” so I want to share this great information with you. If you want to know more about my specialties, see the Contact Us info at the end of this blog or email me at GetWellStayWell@outlook.com. Do yourself a favor, though, and see the healthy food info below first.

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Chakra | Gingko Leaf Meditation Images

Chakra | Gingko Leaf

Chakra | Gingko Leaf ~ What? & Why?

Hello, People! Below, you’ll see I created some slides using the green Gingko Leaf to symbolize the heart chakra against the background of other chakra colors for meditations. This was a little gift to my students who took my weekly course, Chakras With Benefits, from July until the end of September. I call it Chakras With Benefits because I included information about several topics in addition to explaining concepts related to the chakra systems that exist in humans and other life forms. To see the images, Read More! Continue Reading →

Unleash Creativity | Chakras & Haiku Poetry

CREATIVITY – THE CHAKRA CRUTCH DESCRIBED IN HAIKU

Nancy (Ayanna) WyattI’m about to teach you how I psyched myself up to access my creativity – by using chakras as the foundation for Haiku poetry – when I had to write “upbeat” pieces of work for publication right after having to Euthanize another (the third during the pandemic) of my pets who had been with me for eighteen years. You also can overcome grief, physical pain, or “just being stuck,” by employing these techniques – with or without the poetry.

Speaking in Haiku ~

crying

I was not smiling.

I felt paralyzed with grief.

I colored myself.

You will understand that last line better if you read (below) about Haiku and see the last poem.

As a holistic healing practitioner, I was blessed to know techniques that can be used to overcome grief and/or to tap into your imaginative mind for solving problems. You, too, can get “unstuck” in all areas of creativity, or household and business projects, and even health and emotional well-being, by learning about these chakra techniques. Most can be done anywhere in any circumstances. The Haiku is optional!

First let’s learn some definitions of Chakras and Haiku for those who don’t already know. Then, I’ll describe some simple tools you can use as relates to chakras.

If you want to learn LOTS more, then we can schedule this topic as a private session or as one of the classes I can teach to individuals or groups. Just sayin’ ….

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GetWellStayWell@Outlook.com. Subject Line: “Inquiry About Chakras or Haiku.”

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Stress Release Back, Neck, and Shoulders

Stress Release In Under Three Minutes and Free!

You can achieve stress release easily for those of you who carry tension in your back, neck, and shoulders.  This is great for people who sit a lot, work at computers constantly, or who do lots of activities requiring bending from the waist or neck. too much computer work results in the need for stress release

They are easy to do, and you will gain flexibility if you continue to do them one or more times a day. You can get relief in less than three minutes! Here is a short demonstration.

What if it comes back and you forgot where you saw this demonstration? I’ve got you covered!

stress release of pain in the upper back and shoulder area unhappy smiley face with thumbs downstress release of pain in the neck

 

 

 

 

To ensure you can always find it again, without coming back to this post, here is the YouTube link.


Stress Release Using Holistic Healing and Counseling

In the video, I refer to sessions that people book for healing in absentia. To learn more about my ‘summer of the pandemic’ reduced prices, Click Here. You don’t have to do anything except to keep on breathing. I do all the work. For the summer, the prices are drastically reduced, which enables people to have more sessions.

The feedback I’ve been getting is wonderful! Here are a couple of testimonials that describe what it’s like to have a healing session in absentia and in person. The first one is from a client in California (I live in Virginia).  During the COVID-19 pandemic, I’ve been doing Reiki and other healing modalities for her “in absentia.” That means, we are not together, and I do not see her at the time of the session. This one is from July 2020.

Testimonial for In Absentia (“Distance”) Healing  Sessions

“I have always been aa firm believer in holistic health and wellness. I had been receiving treatment for PTSD brought on my a car accident. Before I could complete my face-to-face treatment, the Covid-19 pandemic hit and everything came to a stop. I was no longer able to do the follow-up treatments of acupuncture and Reiki as I had planned.
I knew Nancy was skilled in several modalities of holistic healing and hypnotherapy, but I didn’t see a way to make use of her services given that she is on the east coast and I live on the west coast.
During one of our daily chats she mentioned that she was doing distance Reiki with another person. That was music to my ears and an answer to the dilemma that I was experiencing. The pandemic had shutdown my access to holistic treatment for PTSD and I wasn’t able to get restful sleep or maintain emotional balance.
I immediately inquired about enrolling for distance treatment. Happily she agreed and I am so grateful. It is a wonderful feeling to wake up calm and relaxed. Not only that but to go to bed with back and shoulder pain and wake up free to stretch and feel invigorated is so freeing. I haven’t experienced such a feeling of calm and wellbeing since the auto accIdent last September.
No more hanging on the side of my bed wondering if I have enough strength and stamina to get moving.
This wonderful woman has also touched on some of my emotional challenges that I never even mentioned. Before I could tell her about them, she was explaining to me her “sense” of what she experienced in session that paralleled my emotional and spiritual condition.
I am so glad I gave myself this gift of healing. Thank you, Nancy.”

Testimonial for In-Person Holistic Healing Sessions

Next, is one from Sharon Wright, Ph. D., who was my client for years and who knows me by my name, “Ayanna.” Our sessions were done in person.

     I have known Ayanna since 1986, when I first met her as her client for Reiki work. She worked with me to help me recover from back and neck injuries, stress related illness, and fatigue.

     Ayanna is a compassionate intuitive, intellectual where she excels in understanding the whole individual to get to the root of complex problems.

She is rigorous in her own exploration of holistic and spiritual development, emotional healing, experiential work, relationships and group dynamics. Through her own life experiences, triumphs as well as losses, she gives her unique perspective on spirituality and the human journey. Ayanna is comfortable and adept at weaving her spiritual strengths into her ability to empathize while maintaining a professional distance. She has shown an enduring dedication toward self-study, focus and ongoing personal and professional development.


The World Famous Chi Machine

Sun Ancon Chi machine helps with circulation

Of course, there are other ways to relax and relieve stress. This one is for the entire body, and it aerobicizes you at the same time. It is the world-famous, original chi machine. Five minutes of lying on the floor while the chi machine sways you is equivalent to a half-hour walk. To learn more, Click Here. Yes, I do sell these and will be happy to answer your questions. However, the primary purpose of this post is to give you the freebie demonstration of how to gain stress release through simple movements which cost you nothing!

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Practicing Self-Love During Times of Loneliness or Difficulty in 2018

Things I Appreciate About Me ~ A Self-Love Exercise

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People of all ages, genders, ethnicities and socio-economic status often excel at self-criticism, sometimes to the point of self-abuse. We say things to and about ourselves that we would find totally unacceptable if we said them to someone else.

That negativity accelerates in times of loneliness or when we face challenging problems. It would be more productive, healing, and pleasant if we were to simply accept and love ourselves. As Wayne Dyer said in one of his quotable quotes, “Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it’s always your choice.” — Wayne Dyer 

So, let’s start with spending a few minutes in thoughtful answers to the following questions. This is a little questionnaire I use in some of my classes about self-healing and personal growth. (Contact me for more info.)

Coffee, a faded red rose, and a heart-shaped vanilla cookie broken in halfGet your coffee or tea and whatever you need to answer these questions in writing. You’re going to fill out your responses now and see what amazing changes in your thoughts occur when you review it in 6 months or a year.

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Putting Yourself First for A Change – Exploring A Self-Care Checklist

Change Your Life! Happy figures.Putting Yourself First for A Change

profile of woman in headscarf - looking down - ready for changeAs we know, all cultural training teaches women to take care of their family’s needs as the highest priority and at any cost. As nurturing spirits, we often extend that caring behavior to include everyone but ourselves. The result can be difficulty in “saying no,” setting boundaries and addressing one’s own physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual needs. NOW is the time to change our minds – in a GOOD way.

Young woman with hat and fur - Vector illustrationEach of us is just as valuable and worthy of loving attention as anyone else in the world. Let’s first recognize that and then act like it!

Among the many classes I teach, I facilitate classes and workshops on Putting Yourself First for a Change topics. They are based on my

CHANGE YOUR LIFE Self-Care Checklist.

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Helping Others Who Are Coping with Loss

Helping Others Who Are Coping with Loss of a Loved One

©Nancy Wyatt      January 2017     All Rights Reserved

Female hands holding cups of coffee on rustic wooden table I am a Holistic Healer and was a long-term volunteer in a shelter for homeless people, who suffered from AIDS, addictions, diabetes, and many other ailments (including broken hearts). In my life and in those roles, I have been privileged to provide company and assistance to both humans and animals as they made their transition to the next realm.

Almost everyone I know has suffered life-changing loss and bereavement, whether that relates to health, a career, or a loved-one. I love being able to help people in those circumstances. In addition, I recently taught a series of classes on physical and spiritual ways to recover from deeply-felt loss…usually related to the death of a family member. So, I was interested in an article by Heather Plett, a Canadian, who wrote about 13 Sensitive Ways to Help Someone in Mourning. Continue Reading →