Affect Labeling ~ Another Healing Modality for Emotionality

Affect Labeling – A Definition

man containing emotions and not using the technique of Affect LabelingMan thinking of Affect Labeling words to describe his emotions

Man celebrating the release of his emotions by describing them in words in a process called Affect Labeling.

 

 

 

Affect labeling is the process of putting feelings into words. Specifically, it means identifying and verbally naming your emotional state (e.g., “I feel anxious,” “I’m feeling frustrated”). It’s considered an implicit or incidental emotion regulation strategy, meaning it reduces emotional intensity even when you don’t consciously intend to regulate your emotions. wikipedia+4


Affect Labeling: The Simple Practice That Calms Your Nervous System

When you’re overwhelmed by emotion, the last thing that might occur to you is to talk about it. But neuroscience research reveals something remarkable: simply naming what you’re feeling can reduce the intensity of that emotion by up to 50%. This process, called Affect Labeling, works because putting feelings into words shifts brain activity from the reactive emotional centers to the more rational prefrontal cortex.

Angry people can benefit from Affect Labeling! Angry man could benefit from Affect Labeling to release stress,

The beauty of affect labeling lies in its simplicity. You don’t need to analyze why you feel a certain way or figure out how to fix it. The act of identification itself (“I’m feeling anxious,” “This is anger,” “I notice sadness”) begins to create distance between you and the emotion. You move from being consumed by the feeling to observing it, which naturally reduces its grip on you. Continue Reading →

Positive Intelligence ~ PQ Course

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“The reason we feel anxious is because in the back of our minds we know that control is an illusion.”

—Shirzad Chamine


Cover of the book, Positive Intelligence by Shirzad Chamine

At the suggestion of one of my respected colleagues, Joan Yue, Ph. D., who is a personal coach and healer, I decided to register for Shirzad Chamine’s course on Positive Intelligence (PQ). You’re probably familiar with the term, IQ (an individual’s Intelligence Quotient as determined by tests used in our educational system).

You might also be aware of the concept of EQ, a person’s Emotional Intelligence Quotient. It is defined by Oxford Languages as “The capacity to be aware of, control, and express one’s emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically.”


How Is Positive Intelligence (PQ) Different?

PQ advocates contend that, while your IQ and EQ contribute to your maximum potential, it is your PQ that determines how much of that potential you achieve.

We often fail to manifest what we desire in life because there may be a war going on between our mind’s judgmental saboteurs and our higher wisdom’s ability to employ the perspective of a “Sage.” When following the PQ suggestions, the Sage can help us remove those negative judgments and substitute a constructive, peaceful way of overcoming the stress and negative consequences associated with tainted thinking and emotional responses.

video icon pointing to link for Life Coach  Let’s listen to Shirzad’s description in a lecture he presented in Talks at Google.


Positive Intelligence (PQ) is the name of Shirzad Chamine’s New York Times best-selling book. It’s also the name of his method that we all can use for measuring our Mental Fitness (MF).

MF includes rebounding quickly from negativity (emotions or circumstances) and substituting positive, constructive techniques for creating more harmonious or successful outcomes.

Our PQ indicates how quickly we recover from counterproductive to positive responses to challenges. The classes teach ways in which to do it faster, more consistently, and with health benefits to our minds/bodies/spirits/and emotions.

The following is information about him, as well as a way in which you can register through a certified trainer, who may be able to offer a discounted price. (No, I don’t get paid for writing this blog.) Continue Reading →

Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) – It Works and It Rocks!

Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP)

Guess what I just learned!  NLP!

dandelion seeds cast to the wind for NLP postAs usual, I am scattering my seeds in many directions (like a good dandelion).

I just got my certificate of completion from Dr. Yvonne (Oswald)  in a class on Neuro-Linguistic Programming, better known as NLP.

This is an amazing technique that helps people overcome “stuck” issues (like emotional or psychological issues, fears, and limiting beliefs) in a fraction of the time it would take using other techniques and without having to relive every single, torturous moment of what caused the reaction to the causal event.


Are You: Walking a Tightrope?

Feeling Insecure or Confused?

Wondering How To Overcome Obstacles?

Looking For New Direction?

Neuro-linguistic Programming May Help Enormously!

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You can go to a psychiatrist for twenty years, or you can take an NLP “break-through” session for 5 hours, and I’d bet you a double fudge chocolate ice cream cone that the NLP will work far better and much faster!

In order to get my certification as an NLP professional, I have to complete 30 hours of NLP practice and pass an exam. If you live near me, I’d love for you to help me by scheduling a practice session with me. My (beautiful, British, now Canadian, world-renowned) instructor assured us that people will benefit greatly, even though students are not yet fully comfortable in conducting the sessions.  (In the future, I’ll be able to do it by Skype or other media, but I prefer practicing in person.)

I advise you to take advantage of this opportunity, because the actual sessions are priced at $150/hour or $500 for a breakthrough session. For the first volunteers, I’ll give 5 hours free (the $500 value), after which I’ll charge the normal hourly rate. So, ACT NOW, as they say!


The Founders of Neuro-linguistic Programming

John Grinder (linguistics) and Richard Bandler (mathematics and Gestalt therapy) created NLP  to generate models of excellence. However, these techniques apply to every area of life, including, but not limited to, business. Lots of information is available on the NLP founders’ website.  In brief, they say that

NLP is founded on two fundamental presuppositions:1. The Map is Not the Territory…we can never know reality. We can only know our perceptions of reality….It is generally not reality that limits us or empowers us, but rather our map of reality. 2. Life and ‘Mind’ are Systemic Processes. It is not possible to completely isolate any part of the system from the rest of the system.”

You can get much more detail on their website.


Combining Neuro-linguistic Programming with Transpersonal Hypnotherapy Accounts for My Next Disappearing Act

eyes peering at a crystal ball in the palm of a hand - for Neuro-linguistic Programming postYes, I’m about to do it again, which means that my posts will continue to be “irregular,” to put it politely.  Soon, I’ll be attending a certification class, so I can provide hypnosis techniques, along with the NLP, to help people overcome traumas and dramas in their lives or simply to become more successful.

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If you think you’ve never meditated or been capable of being hypnotized, just think back to a time when you stared at a sunset/sunrise, or a flickering candle flame, or a fireplace. You were there, Baby Cakes! You were there in your Alpha brain wave state or deeper. It is so relaxing and rejuvenating! I already know how to do this, but I want to get the certification to prove it. I’ll have to pass an exam and hold practice sessions for that, too, so stay tuned!


Why Would I Learn Neuro-linguistic Programming and Other Techniques to Relieve Stress and Enhance Healing?

These are just more tools in my toolbox for being able to help people meet their own needs. Let’s explore together. Contact me with questions, or to schedule a session (still free during the practice sessions, but definitely not thereafter!)

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